social networking sites are for socializing

i'm not butting in, it's just that i've encountered this scenario so many times, and i'm freakin' tired of it.

social networking sites are for socializing, not for making enemies, or for being racist, or for making another human feel ashamed for something. just like in facebook, what you post, what you like, and even what you play, reflects who you are. i don't know why the facebook people [the moderators] put in the status bar "What's on your mind?" cause that's gonna bring a hell lot of problems, cause to think that there are more than a million people on facebook, and tell me who doesn't have a problem on his or her mind?

my friend and i had a talk just last weekend about this and thought, if you put, or rather share something, it means you want to have people give you feedback. but if it's something personal, for me i think you'd rather not post it. having people knowing your everyday life makes it [to other people] irritating, or much worse, dangerous. [yeah people can stalk you, they'll know what's your life status, or things like that...]

now for me if you'll take a look at my wall, my posts are almost about youtube or videos, cause really for me, what's the point of sharing something when i don't want people to know about it or comment or even talk about it. and you know sometimes people KNOW even if they don't comment. you'll just be surprised the next day when you're talking to them about something and they'll say, "oh yeah i read it on your post last night..."

now i know not all people are agreeing with me, but really. admit it, it's true. but if you wanna post your personal feelings away and you want people to know and comment, go, no one's holding you back. i don't wanna be rude or anything, and i don't wanna offend anyone, but yeah.

it's just, my problem is that i don't wanna see or read posts that's all about arguing and stuff, and i know they're hurting someone, or posts of people who fight, and they do it on these social networking sites. i know they wanna share their feelings but do it there? not really a wise move there.

people nowadays seems to have a bunch of reasons why they wanna do it there, and not confront that particular person, but REALLY? there? heck, if i had a "-REALLY- COUNTER" mine would be a lot than what i'd just typed in.

i hope some can get my point here. it's really pissing me off when i see posts that's about people they hate, and you know, really, who is that person they are talking about, and it's your friend, and being a friend of your friend, it hurts you too, and to think that by their posts you know have a hint of what's going on, and by reading that posts you get hurt cause the posts are talking about your friend, and it's making things worse for your friend --yeah i'm talking too much again, am i not?

so yeah, now you've got a hint on why i made this post.